My class has been studying about divorce. This is a sad topic. I found that the majority of divorces that happen could easily be fixed if the couple would just talk to each other in kind ways, about what bothers them. The couple shouldn't attack each other, but instead, together they should attack the PROBLEM they are having. It would be very helpful, in my opinion, if they realize that they might need help saving their marriage, and to go to a GOOD counselor to get that help to tackle the problems they are having. I know sometimes people don't want to work at the marriage, and that is a sad thing, but that is not what the case most often is.
One thing that can help the struggling couple is to realize what the other is trying to communicate to them. That way they can react appropriately and not cause any more problems that would spiral them down a course to divorce. I would suggest getting help from a counselor to better understand how to do that and to help the couple properly communicate together.
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